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Right Now You Are Wonderful

January 28th, 2012

Right Now You Are Wonderful!

Right Now You are on the leading edge of creation.
Right Now Source is reveling with you feeling good on this leading edge of creation.
Source is not urging you to some other place and time where you will feel better.

Source is celebrating as you open your heart and mind to allow all the good feeling energy available to your right here and now on this leading edge of creation.
The more you allow good feelings now, the more good feeling experiences Source can give you now.

Right Now You Are Wonderful!

Blessings,

Barry

I LOVE MY LIFE!

All writings here are copyright © 2012 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

Can you explain the way you understand Gratitude?

January 1st, 2012

This week my inbox was greeted with a short note of appreciation . . . and a question about gratitude . . . here is my response.

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To me thankfulness, gratefulness, or appreciation is a feeling, emotion or attitude in acknowledgment of a benefit that one has received or will receive.

To me this benefit comes through what I may perceive as helpful (or harmful). The reason I say both the good and bad is that perception is always governed by the direction of our thoughts and our feelings always indicate the direction of our thoughts.

Look For/See/Perceive bad in something
You Will Feel Bad

Complain about Something

You Will Feel Bad

Think something is impossible

You Will Feel Bad

Conversely . . .

Look For/See/Perceive Good in something
You Will Feel Good

Appreciate Something

You Will Feel Good

Think something is possible

You Will Feel Good

When you look back over your life . . . to events that you perceived at the time as bad, you can see that they actually led you to your present good.

By example, do you ever recall wanting a particular job or relationship or other desire, that you did not receive, which at the time felt very bad to you, however you were eventually led to an even better job or relationship or other desire that felt very good to you?

Life Is Set Up For Us To Win

That is a motto of mine.

I Love My Life!

Is another motto of mine.

Today I celebrate both the good and bad in my life, because they are my perceptions (thoughts) in action.

Today I celebrate my ability to create — both the results I desire and the results I do not (Because I do not understand the full picture).

Today I celebrate my results because they show me that I am a powerful creator through the direction of my thoughts.

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So here is the way I activate Gratitude in my life.

When I experience a result that I like, I clap my hands together and gleefully celebrate . . . I created that!

When I experience a result that I do not like, I clap my hands together and gleefully celebrate . . . I created that!

In both of these celebrating experiences, I am not celebrating the particular result (good or bad), I am celebrating my ability to create.

The Law of Attraction could also be called The Law of Attention.

Whatever you give your attention to you get more of.

If you pay attention to the bad results you get more bad results.
If you pay attention to the good results you get more good results.
If you pay attention your ability to create, you get more ability to create.

Often people say the Law of Attraction does not work because they say they are not getting the results they desire . . . however we always get the results we pay the most attention to.

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Recently a close friend of mine commented that life was not going the way they wanted it to.

I asked my friend to comment a little more and it quickly became apparent that my friend was focused on what they did not want and what was not working more than what was working.

I encouraged my friend by saying, “Life can only give you what you are paying attention to.”

“Pardon?”

“When I asked you to tell me a little more, your story showed me that you are paying more attention to what is not working, rather than what is working. So I ask you, in this problem area, what is actually working and giving you the results you desire?”

My friend then went on and shared some of the things that were working. At first, my friend struggled to find any thing good. With gentle guiding my friend eventually came to a point of overflowing with blessings about the very same thing moments before had been overwhelmed with problems.

To me thankfulness, gratefulness, or appreciation is a feeling, emotion or attitude in acknowledgment of a benefit that one has received or will receive.

Whatever you desire in your life, Look For/See/Perceive the ways your desire is already in your life . . . and you will attract more of that into your life.

If you are single and desire a relationship . . . appreciate and celebrate the ways your relationship desire is already in your life . . . and you will attract more love into your life.

If you desire more abundance . . . appreciate and celebrate the ways abundance flows freely in your life now . . . and you will attract more wealth into your life.

If you desire radiant health . . . appreciate and celebrate the ways health fills every cell of your body right now . . . and you will attract more health into your life.

Blessings,

Barry

I LOVE MY LIFE!

All writings here are copyright © 2012 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

The Transition of Jerry Hicks

November 27th, 2011

On Friday, November 18th, Jerry Hicks transitioned back into the Non-Physical.

I never personally met Jerry Hicks, but the work he began with his wife Esther Hicks and the non-physical entity they call ABRAHAM has profoundly impacted me for over ten years now.

I feel I got to meet Jerry through the vibrational aspect of the numerous audios and videos and books created by Esther & Jerry Hicks with ABRAHAM.

Please check out the wealth of information available on their website => www.abraham-hicks.com

Esther and Jerry Hicks

I am grateful for their work and the quite way Jerry and Esther Hicks brought this work forth to share with the world.

Thanks Jerry for your impact in my life.

Blessings,

Barry

I LOVE MY LIFE!

All writings here are copyright © 2011 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

What If My Heart Is Breaking?

November 17th, 2011

Recently, three different people in my community came to me with questions.  All of them felt total powerlessness in their lives. All three of them asked me a similar question . . . “What if my heart is Breaking?”

One felt powerless in their relationship.

One felt powerless in their health.

One felt powerless in their career.

They asked me how they could move forward towards their desired results.

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For the rest of this post, I will be answering to one person even though my answer applies to all equally.

After a few questions, I discovered that this person had been feeling powerless for over 3 years with their issue. Today, it has manifested in a physical form they did not desire, and from their perspective could not change.

Your Thoughts
+ Your Feelings
+ Your Words
+ Your Actions
————-
+ Your Results

This person believes that they create their experience.

Yet, this person also denies their part in creating this current result.

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Next, I asked this person to look at the concept of Results in general — and one good feeling Result in their life specifically.

They could easily identify with the way their Thoughts + Feelings + Words + Actions = Results for the good feeling Results.

They did not desire to identify with the way their Thoughts + Feelings + Words + Actions = Results for the bad feeling Results.

I asked them why their creative participation in their results were any different — just because they called one Result Good and another Result bad?

Finally, they willingly agreed there was no difference.

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I then took them through a simple explanation . . .

1. First, we Think.
2. Second, we Feel because of what we Think about.
3. Third, we Speak about what we’ve been Thinking and Feeling about.
4. Forth, we Act upon what we have been doing with our Thoughts, Feelings, and Words.
5. Fifth, we get Results.

If we are getting Results, then we have been Thinking, Feeling, Speaking, and Acting in ways that support the Results we now have.

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Now to the specific challenge in their life Results — a feeling of powerlessness!

The direction of our thoughts always have a feeling associated with them.

Think about something good — you will feel good.
Think about something bad — you will feel bad.
Think about something powerless — you will feel powerless.

Think and Feel powerless long enough and you will Speak and Act from a powerless perspective . . . voila . . . powerless Results will seem to appear from everywhere.

Once we have a powerless Result in our life . .. it is very easy to Think, Feel, Speak, and Act powerless, because our Result focuses the direction of our thought.

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No matter what our Results feel like to us . . . we can direct our four creative powers towards a different Result.

Your Thoughts
+ Your Feelings
+ Your Words
+ Your Actions
————-
+ Your Results

It takes focus.

It can be done.

If there is a different Result you desire in your life ask yourself . . . “What Thoughts, Feelings, Words, and Actions support the Results I desire?”

Then put them into motion until you have the Results you desire.

What if your heart is breaking?

You get to choose the direction of your thoughts — Don’t You?

Blessings,

Barry

I LOVE MY LIFE!

All writings here are copyright © 2011 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

Are You Open To A New Idea?

October 28th, 2011

This week I interacted with someone in my community whom felt their lot in life was stuck where it is.

“Do you know about the Law of Attraction?” I asked.

“I know all about the Law of Attraction.” he replied.

“The reason I ask is that when I asked how you have been, the first thing you said was this past year was the worst yet.”

He said, “The Law of Attraction does not exclude things being bad especially when Karma is involved.”

“As I understand the Law of Attraction,” I began, “Whatever you hold as your subject of attention sets your Vibration which attracts more of the same to you.”

“If someone is in a car accident, they have no control over that.”

“Not once the accident has happened.”

“There is no way you can know that a car accident is coming towards you.”

“I believe you can.”

“I don’t believe that.” he said firmly.

“Are you open to a new idea?” I gently asked.

He took an beat and then nodded for me to continue.

“The Law of Attraction gives you more of whatever you are focused upon. If you continue to tell the story you shared with me . . . the past year was the worst yet . . . every time you think that thought, you are a match to that experience, and you will feel bad.”

“You have obviously not had someone close to you die.”

“I have actually.”

“Who?”

“The woman who was my first wife.”

“Did you not have a great hole in your heart because of death that was impossible to fill?”

“I did not feel that great hole that you are talking about. Are you open to a new idea?” I gently asked again, and he nodded for me to continue. “When you remember the greatest most love filled times you had with your loved one . . . right now recall one of them.”

The man closed his eyes and a smile graced his face and his shoulders relaxed.

“That love you are feeling, right now, is not a result of that person being in your life, it is a result of the focus of your thought in this moment. Even when your loved one was present, the reason you felt that love in their presence was because you choose to direct your thoughts towards feeling that love. Your Feelings always indicate the direction of your thoughts.”

“I agree that thoughts are powerful.”

“When you look towards something you want and you think you are going to get there — even without knowing how — you will feel good.” I paused to let that thought sink in. “Also when you look away from the thing that you desire and you think — there is no possible way for you to get it — you will always feel bad.”

“But these are things you cannot control.”

“I agree with you. You can never control the things that are external to you.”

“You can only control how you respond to them.” He said.

“Exactly, all of your control is in the direction of your thought, and you can control your thought before you arrive there.”

“But bad things happen to good people too.”

“Good or bad is a perception. What one person sees as bad, because they are not able to see the opportunity in the experience, another person sees as good, because they are able to see the opportunity in the experience.”

“Positive thinking?” he asked.

“Positive expecting.” I said, “When you train your thought to be open to new ideas, to believe that everything in life is set up for you to win, or to expect things to have a positive possibility, then you have all that control you could ever possibly have.”

“That type of sustained thought is hard.”

“At first any new thought is hard to sustain, but it gets easier with time. It takes sustained determination to direct your thoughts in a way that you can find good feeling things wherever you are.”

“You have that kind of sustained thought pattern.”

“I’m not perfect, but I do have a more focused sustained positive expectation thought process than most.”

“I feel a great sense of relief now.” He put his hand out and I shook it firmly, “Thanks for your reminder.”

“Your welcome . . . however you were open to a new idea. And when you are open to a new positive expectation idea, your life flourishes in leaps and bounds.”

And your life can flourish too!

Blessings,

Barry

I LOVE MY LIFE

All writings here are copyright © 2011 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

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