If the results of your life are not what you desire, isn’t it about time you change your approach?

The very simple reason that your life is not what you desire is that Life is Fair.

Life Is Fair

How can life be fair?

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If you are feeling financial pain of debt, Life is fair because you have made choices with your money that have lead you to this result.

If you are feeling relationship pain, Life is Fair because you have made choices within your relationship that have lead you to this result.

If you are feeling health pain, Life is Fair because you have made choices with your health that have lead you to this result.

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Many would say that is unfair.

If you are saying that life is unfair, then ask yourself:

Are you Complaining your own experience?

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Your Thoughts Create.

Your Feelings Create.

Your Words Create.

Your Actions Create.

If you use your thoughts, feelings, words, and actions to complain about your experience in any way, you are using your thoughts, feelings, words, and actions to Create an experience you complain about.

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You are Creating Your Own Experience (whether you know it or not).

Are you Complaining your own experience? (become Aware of what you are doing with your Creative powers)

Awareness is the key that can transform your life. If your life sucks right now, ask yourself, “where does my life suck?”

Your answer to that question, whether it is health, money, or relationships (the big three complaints) will tell you where you need to change your thoughts, feelings, words, and actions.

You can change the results you are experiencing, when you are Aware that you can change your thoughts, feelings, words, and actions about your experience.

You are Creating Your Own Experience (NOW YOU KNOW IT - CHANGE IT CONSCIOUSLY).

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Start an Awareness program. Become Aware of how you Choose to Create your own experience.

If you find yourself Complaining, start genuinely Complimenting something in your experience.

If you find yourself Criticizing, start Contemplating the way you would like your life to be.

If you find yourself Crapping our, start Choosing in Alignment with your highest Potential.

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When your life REALLY SUCKS, you are far from where you desire to be.

Be gentle on yourself. It is going to take time.

Think of your journey to total Love, Success, Abundance, Peace, Health, and Joy like building a pyramid. Imagine that it is going to take you ten years to build the pyramid of your dreams. The first year is the foundation year. It is always the toughest as you build the largest part of your pyramid. Keep the pinnacle as your focus and you will make it, and each successive year will become easier and easier until you accomplish all you desire. Ten years to transform a life experience that totally sucks into one that totally succeeds is not too much to ask, when you know that …

Life Is Fair (always in respect to your thoughts, feelings, words, and actions).

Success Blessings,

Barry

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On the surface it seems like a really easy question:

Do you see Abundance Everywhere?

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Do you see Abundance in Really Expensive things?

Do you see Abundance in Really Cheap things?

Do you see Abundance in Sale Prices?

Do you see Abundance in Laughter?

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If you want to experience more Abundance, it is time that you find a way to see Abundance everywhere.

If you want to experience more Abundance, it is time to take every example of lack and build your belief system to see Abundance everywhere.

If you want to experience more Abundance, it is time to talk only of the Abundance your wish to Ask for, Align with, Allow, and Accept as yours.

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You cannot say things like …

I cannot afford that.
That is too expensive.
Why is there so much month left after my money?
Why do they have so much wealth?
When is it going to get easier financially?
I better get it before the sale finishes.

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You have to find YOUR WAY to only speaking, thinking, feeling, and appreciating Abundance everywhere.

With my budget, I shall have one of those soon.
A high price means that I can place more value into it and myself to have it (if I so choose).
Now that I plan more effectively, there is more money than month.
If they or anyone has so much wealth, that means that it is possible for me too.
This moment it is easier financially, so I will build from here.
If I buy this sale item, I shall put the money I saved towards buying more assets.

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Abundance is always present - especially when you see lack.

For you to see or perceive lack, then there is also Abundance present. Most often the Abundance that is present is within your mind. You are able to imagine more Abundance than may be currently present in your experience, but then you use your Imagination to manifest more lack because of your attention to lack.

Abundance is just as Available as lack. Whatever you focus upon is what you get more of.

See lack - get more lack.

See Abundance - get more Abundance!

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Ask yourself, “What do you want to see more of?”, and then see it everywhere, using your imagination to see and perceive the pathway to the Presence of Abundance everywhere.

Abundant Blessings Barry

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The Seven Relationship Rings

Do you have problems with your intimate relationship partner?

Do you have problems with family members?

Do you have problems with co-workers?

Do you have problems with community members?

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The Seven Relationship Rings can help you immensely.

The Seven Relationship Rings can help you transform your life.

When you view and approach life using The Seven Relationship Rings model, you will transform your life.

When some people hear about The Seven Relationship Rings , they comment that it sound selfish.

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The only way we can experience life is through the perspective of Self. Is it selfish to approach life from the perspective of Self? I think it is Self-Full. Only when we are Self-Full can we help ourselves and others.

When we fill our cup of Self, then our cup is full. What do we fill our cup with? We fill our own cup with Love, Success, Abundance, Peace, Health, Joy, Freedom, Fun, Kindness; we fill our cup with everything that we need to Love and Approve of ourselves just as we are.

Some see this as selfish. The people who see this as selfish, selfishly want you to pay attention to them (or their point of view) first.

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The sooner you work from your Core relationship with God/Life/Energy, then every decision you make will be informed by your focus on your Core Relationship with God/Life/Energy.

Self-Full to me means God-Self-Full because in my Core is my Relationship with God/Life/Energy.

My goal is to fully embody God’s Presence in my life. This is a goal I work towards to be Self-Full in all of my Relationships.

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To most effectively experience The Seven Relationship Rings and to have Joyful, Peaceful, and effective relationships, you make all decisions from the inside out.

By example, if a co-worker asks you to switch shifts and work for them, in the past you may have said to yourself, “They switched with me the last time I needed a shift change.” and you then make the switch. Since this decision does not come from your Core (it comes from your sense of duty), many times this decision can lead to a rotting core inside.

Using The Seven Relationship Rings, I make my decisions by working from the Core outwards.

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Now if a co-worker asks me to work, I ask myself in my Core if that choice works for me …

Core Relationship Ring with God/Life/Energy: Yes that works for me.

Intimate Relationship Ring: Yes that works for us.

Friend Relationship Ring: I promised the kids that I would go to their baseball game on that day. No that does not work for me.

Then I go to my co-worker and say “no”.

When I approach my decisions from the inside out, I do not feel rotten in my Core when I make decisions. If I always make decisions to help others before myself, it very often leads to feeling rotten in my Core.

For a more detailed explanation of The Seven Relationship Rings , check out this link => The Seven Relationship Rings

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We always make decisions from our Core, and when we make our decisions from a Self-Full position (God-Self-Full), then we make decisions that build our life Joyfully.

Blessings Barry

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I just finished reading the latest books by Sylvia Browne.

End of Days: Predictions and Prophecies About the End of the World

Psychics are not always seen favorably.

Sylvia Browne is seen by many as the Devil Incarnate.

I on the other hand, do not encourage myself or others to throw out the baby with the bath water. If you can get one idea from anyone (whose ideology you may disagree with) that helps you to become a better person, then you have benefited.

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Specifically to the concept of the Devil, Sylvia Browne in her latest book says:

“The Devil is alive and well, and it is called human apathy.”

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From the dictionary …

Apathy:n.

1. Lack of interest or concern, especially regarding matters of general importance or appeal; indifference.
2. Lack of emotion or feeling; impassiveness.

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Ask yourself, just as Sylvia Browne encourages, what in your world are you apathetic towards? In my interpretation of her writing, she is saying that there are too many issues in the world today that we turn a blind eye to.

I would not suggest that you fight What Is, for fighting What Is, Energetically calls for more of what is.

Has the war against drugs really reduced drug?

Has the war against AIDS really reduced AIDS?

Has the war against ANYTHING really reduced ANYTHING?

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I believe not. I agree with Sylvia Browne that too many of us, myself included, have been or continue to be apathetic in a world that calls for more compassion, more love, and more support of the things we do want.

The Love for whatever we want Creates more of whatever we want.

When you see something in your world that is less than what you want, immediately you know what you do want. Take the vision of what you do want and hold it and act towards it and embody it in all that you do.

The Love for whatever we want Creates more of whatever we want.

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At the end of the day, you only have what you give to the world.

Are you Complaining Your Own Experience?

Are you Creating Your Own Experience?

The Love for whatever you want Creates more of whatever you want!

Blessings Barry

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Is the Power of Focus really important?

YES!

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Quite often people say to me something like, “I am an idea person. I come up with great ideas, but I never finish them. I have a whole bunch of ideas that could help others. I have thousands of ideas really. I just get so many new ideas I don’t know how to bring them all to fruition.”

To each person who is an idea person, I have this advice,

“With the Power of Focus you can manifest your ideas more effectively.”

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“Why is the Power of Focus so important?”

The Power of Focus is so important because we are energy beings. It is our Vibrational Core that Attracts the energy required to manifest what we want.

Some people would believe that it is their actions. Actions are important when you use the right energy along with your action.

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So what is the right energy in the Power of Focus?

The right energy is BELIEF.

You can have a million ideas. You can make a million actions to manifest those ideas. Without the Power of Focus on BELIEF, you will be very hard pressed to manifest any idea you have.

The right Action is informed with your Belief.

Sure sometimes we get lucky. Sometimes enough of the pieces are in place and everything falls together.

We can take control of the process when we are Aware. Here are the three steps to be Aware of:

1. Idea

2. Belief

3. Action

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Let’s use the example of Making a great dinner as our Idea.

Step one is the Idea. We have that. Our idea is to make a great dinner.

Step two is the Belief that we can make the dinner (I know this appears to be a simple manifestation, but bear with me). We don’t always have the Belief that we can make a great dinner. Good dinner! Sure. Fantastic dinner! Sometimes. Some of us have little or no belief that we can make a great dinner. This is the way it is with our dreams too. Sometimes we do not have the belief that we can make a great ________. (whatever our dreams are, quite often it is hard to believe we can do it).

Step Three is the action. Inherent with our idea is some form of Action very often. Some Actions just seem to say to us, “This is the next step.” In our dinner manifestation we may need to take Action to buy the food, or take Action to prepare the food, or take Action to cook the food. Well you get the idea. Different Actions are necessary at each step of the great dinner making process.

Also with Step Three, and very important in the dinner making Process is your Belief. If you Believe you can make a great dinner, then all of your Actions are going to confidently work together to produce the desired result. On the other hand, if you Believe that your chances of making a great dinner are slim to none, then all of your Actions are going to work against each other, or you will make mistakes, or something else will happen because your confidence is low to none, so accidents may happen and you will very easily say, “I knew I couldn’t do it.”

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Here is the reason the Power of Focus is so effective in the Creation of any idea we Choose to Create. Especially if you appear to be an idea generator.

If like the previous example, we have one idea to make a great dinner. Then in the process of making the great dinner, we have a second idea to make a great breakfast. Then in the process of making both of those ideas, we have a third idea to make a great dessert. I think you see the challenge now.

All of a sudden, you went from making a great dinner to making three great eating events. Now when you go to prepare one, you are preparing all three. It is very difficult to prepare all three Ideas at once.

What if you have even more great Ideas come to you?

Are you going to put them into the mix too?

That is what most Idea people do, they mix up too many ideas and then wonder why they are not coming to fruition.

Unless and until you have a system to help you organize your Ideas, and organize your ability to create them, you will have mixed up Ideas, Beliefs, and Actions, which ineffectively Create in your experience.

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What the Power of Focus is all about is Awareness. The more Aware you are of your Energy Use, the more Focus you can place into Creating Your Own Experience.

Just look at many successful people in the world. Most of them put one great idea into place, and then built from there. And the people that put many great ideas out there - notice the common theme. Are they all toys? Are they all businesses? There is something about their Ideas that all have naturally developed one after another after another.

By the way, with Patience, a Plan, and the Power of Focus, you can make all the exciting life choices you desire, because if you have the ability to dream them, God/Life/Energy has the ability to manifest them through you.

Blessings on Your Power of Focus Barry

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