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In my jacket pocket I keep a tiny notebook and a pen. Whenever there is anything I would like in my life, I write it down as follows …

“Thank You God For ___________”

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Two weeks ago I wrote … “Thank You God For More Cash Money.”

No matter where I went, I found cash money that entire week. However most of the cash money was small change, pennies, nickles, dimes, quarters, and a few dollar coins.

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Last week, I wrote … “Thank You God for Cash Money in Large Denominations.”

I smiled with certainty that I would get Cash Money in Large Denominations.

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Yesterday, I was walking down the street, and there on the pavement was a wallet. After picking the wallet up, I discovered inside of it a lot of Cash Money in Large Denominations.

I laughed whole heartedly because I could not really keep the money. God/Life/Energy is very funny sometimes.

I went to my place of employment (which is open long hours) and called the owner of the wallet. The owner was very happy that his wallet had been found.

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I went home and shared the story of what I had written in my tiny book.

My family members found this very funny, and each one said, “Too bad you didn’t write Cash Money you could keep.”

I took out my tiny book, checked off that I had received my Cash Money in Large Denominations, and then wrote …

“Thank You God for Cash Money in Large Denominations THAT I CAN KEEP.”

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About an hour later, a co-worker called me to say that, “The Owner of the wallet had come in with his family to show his young kids that there are honest people in the world.” Then my co-worker said, “He left you a $50 bill as a reward.”

I celebrated with my family and later that evening I checked off that I received Cash Money in Large Denominations, and then I wrote some new requests to the Universe.

Get yourself your own tiny book, and “Ask the Universe for what you really want.” If you don’t worry about the way something is supposed to come to you, God/Life/Energy can provide anything your heart desires.

Blessings,

Barry

All writings here are copyright © 2008 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

I have been looking at many different things in my life, and more importantly I have been looking at the results that I have been getting.

I have been looking at the results I have not been getting and asking myself …

“What am I really afraid of?”

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As time goes on, I find that I am personally afraid of fewer things, but the things that I am afraid of I hide from myself.

When I say “hide from myself”, I mean that they show up in self-doubt and denial.

I am so afraid of something that I have almost completely hidden it from myself.

I say, “almost completely hidden it from myself” because life has given me a vibrant mirror to show me the areas that I hide from myself - other people.

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Would you like to know what you’re afraid of to the level that you hide it from yourself?

Yes.

No.

Maybe.

If you are reading this article, then I know that you would like to answer this question for yourself.

Here is the answer …

“We are afraid of whatever we notice others being afraid of.”

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If you find yourself commenting on the fear in others …

“They don’t want to get their own place.”

“He is underpaid in that position.”

“She is too scared to leave that relationship.”

Whatever fear we notice others using to stop themselves, we have that same fear (maybe in a different experience) stopping us or we would not notice it.

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Fear is not a bad thing unless we let it stop us from achieving our dreams.

Fear is a symptom of moving into a place where we don’t have all the answers. When we don’t have all the answers, we become doubtful/fearful.

When we use our inner feelings to cloud (obliterate/hide) the reality we desire to experience, we are controlled by fear.

Fear is Feelings Eroding Away Reality.

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Fear does not have to stop you, you can transform your fear into faith.

In order to do that, we have to understand the level of fear we are experiencing.

Fear Scale

Easy Doubts => Nagging Worry => Fearful Feelings => Abject Terror

On the easy end of the fear scale there is lack of knowledge and uncertainty about how to move forward.

On the extreme end of the fear scale there is irrational beliefs and abject terror about a situation.

If you are on the extreme level of fear, you can discover ways to lessen your extreme fear back to a place of doubt.

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Doubt is on the easy part of the fear scale.

You may be using doubt to stop you rather than being stopped by extreme fears. Both are a result of fear.

You don’t ask someone for a date because you doubt they will say, “yes”.

You don’t go back to school because you doubt it will change your life.

You don’t go for your dreams because you doubt it will make a difference as your age.

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Abject Terror is on the extreme part of the fear scale.

If you are so afraid of doing a certain thing that could potentially benefit your life, then you may be living in extreme fear. If that is so, take the small step to reach out and ask for help. Whether you discover that help through reading a book, getting counseling, or asking for advice from someone who has changed their life to get the kind of results you would like. Know that you can find help.

*Note* if you are in a very fearful place and have been their for years, please find professional help. There are people in your community who can help. You can find local organizations through a crisis hot line. You are worth more. Get the help you deserve.

Life is gloriously designed to help you (and everyone). No matter what you fear, someone somewhere has had a similar experience. They have been in fear brought about by similar circumstances and they have gone through that fear to a place known as relief and strength. Now they share their story for the benefit of others.

There are as many different fearful growth experiences as their are people. We all grow through various levels of fear to become the people we are today. We are here to help others.

Everyone experiences fear. Everyone finds ways to manage and conquer their level of fear to live the life of their moment to moment dreams. You can to.

Blessings,

Barry

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I was listening to my latest mp3 download from Esther and Jerry Hicks and Abraham.

In this edition, the idea that resonated with me the most was about being “just a little bit more hopeful”.

So I found myself asking, “How can I be more hopeful?”

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Being more hopeful in the areas of my life is a result of my perspective about my life. I can view things as not working out, or I can view things as now working out. Viewing things as Now Working Out is a heck of a lot more hopeful.

About Love - I can be more hopeful by realizing that everything that has ever happened to me in the arena of love has brought me to this place in my life. Each loving and unloving experience has given me more clarity about what I enjoy in a loving experience. I feel hopeful now that I can see clearly what I desire through love and that I can appreciate the evidence that shows me over time that my loving experiences have become more loving. I enjoy the loving experiences I have now compared to many years ago when I was less open to the greatness of life. (that feels good)

About Success - I can be more hopeful by realizing that everything in my life has led me to this point of Creation. Through every single past experience of Success (or not) I have grown and learned lessons and skills that put me into a place of Successful Potential Right Now. I am hopeful that each piece of the puzzle will come together this time. I have more experience for success. I have more optimism for success. I am prepared for more success to flow into my life. (that feels great)

About Abundance - I can see evidence of more Abundance in my life as time has gone by. From simple observation of my first pay check to my current pay check, to the differences between my first apartment on my own to my current one, to the knowledge I have about financial freedom and the plan I have in place. On the days my Abundance appears to be lacking, I can easily see that my experience of Abundance has grown as I have grown in Abundance Beliefs. (that feels wonderful)

About Health - Every day in every way I AM Radiant Health and Beauty. My experience of health has been various over the years. I love and appreciate that the effort I spend focusing on good health and healthy living has produced results of Radiant Health and Beauty. Even when I experience a downturn in my health, I am able to focus on my Body’s Natural Healing Ability and although it takes time, my health gets back on track. Even when I have experienced extreme health challenges, I have been hopeful and been able to quickly find the healthful direction to take. This has included the right healing practitioners, and new empowering health beliefs and actions for me. (that feels amazing)

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It is through being “just a little bit more hopeful” that we Vibrationally Align with our desires.

When we are pessimistic, we Vibrationally Align with the lack of our desires.

As a result keep asking the question:

“How can I be more hopeful?”

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If life is a manifestation of your thoughts, feelings, words, and actions (as I have experienced), then just imagine the benefit of being more hopeful with your creative powers.

Imagine your world experience Aligning with your hopefulness. Then take your time and energy and focus with a playful spirit on being more hopeful.

Experience a life full of hope because that Vibration blesses your experience Abundantly.

Blessings,

Barry

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Last week, Dr. Joe Vitale release the second edition to The Attractor Factor: 5 Easy Steps for Creating Wealth (or Anything Else) From the Inside Out.

I have been a fan of Dr. Joe Vitale for many years now.

This book has so many new and worthwhile ideas, stories, and actionable steps that I believe it is a must for everyone on a Conscious Creation Journey.

Dr. Joe Vitale also reaches a new level of openness through this book. In the original edition of the book Spiritual Marketing, and the new and improved follow up The Attractor Factor Dr. Joe Vitale hinted at the betrayal he experienced with his main healing influence over a ten year period.

In The Attractor Factor: 5 Easy Steps for Creating Wealth (or Anything Else) From the Inside Out, he openly and honestly tells the more complete story behind the deception that he grew through.

One of the most inspiring parts in the book, is the last chapter The Experiment: The Intentional Meditation Foundation. In that chapter, Dr. Joe Vitale challenges the reader to try a 30 day experiment just for the fun of it.

I know that I am going to do it for the fun of it too.

Blessings,

Barry

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All you have to do is look at your life and voila - there is the story you are telling about your life.

The story you are telling manifests as your life.

If you want to experience your life in ways that are different from what you have now, you have to begin telling a different story.

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“Isn’t that make believe?”, you may ask.

“No.” I reply, “It is make belief.”

“What’s the difference?”

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Make believe occurs when you play a game.

Make Belief occurs when you Consciously Create your Belief in your ability to live your ideal life.

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Are you done playing games with your life?

Are you ready to Consciously Create your life?

I hope you answered both of those questions with a resounding, “YES!”

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Now, answer the question, “What story are you telling about your life?”

Answer the question by looking at the results in your life.

Are the results you are getting, the results you want?

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If you answered “Yes!”, then congratulations.

If you answered “No!”, then now starts the work of writing a new story for every aspect of your life.

Write a story for, Your Health, Your Wealth, Your Relationships, Your Travel, Your Right Livelihood, Your Entire Life.

Then start telling your Ideal Story to, first and most importantly, yourself and second to everyone who asks.

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Are you afraid to write your Ideal Story and then share it with yourself and others?

You don’t need to be.

Your Ideal Story is just your blueprint from where you are to where you are going.

Your Ideal Story is a collection of good feeling ideas based around the following two ideas:

#1. Knowing where you are going

#2. Knowing what your very next step is

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Life is as easy as that.

Telling your Ideal story is as easy as that.

You only need to know where you are going, and your very next step.

By example, if you know where you are going #1 (to publish a book with a major publisher), all you have to know is what your very next step is #2 (to write your first book).

By example, if you know where you are going #1 (to have a loving nurturing relationship with someone who understands you and is funny), all you have to know is what your very next step is #2 (to meet and greet everyone today by putting your loving, caring, and funny self in action).

By example, if you know where you are going #1 (to own your own home), all you have to know is what your very next step is #2 (check out the listings in your ideal neighborhood).

When people ask you, “what’s up?”, you can tell them with clarity.

“I am living my dream life. I know where I am going, and every day I see signs that tell me I am on track.”

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For any naysayers who you meet, smile and say to them, “Tell me what signs you saw that show you are on track to your dreams today.”

If they have no clearly defined dreams, encourage them to dream again. And then tell them, that all they need is:

#1. Knowing where they are going

#2. Knowing what their very next step is

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Do you know where you are going?

What is your very next step?

You are getting closer every moment you clarify those answers.

Blessings,

Barry

All writings here are copyright © 2008 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.