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On the last day of the year, I take time to really remember with gratitude all the great things that happened in my life.

Some of the highlights include:

• Rolls Royce Master Mind with Dr. Joe Vitale, Pat O’Bryan, and Wendy G Young
• My family members visiting during the summer
• Deciding to travel to Europe - Summer 2009
• Loving Family and Friends
• My 40th Birthday Celebrations
• My renewed website!
• And so many other glorious things - 2008 was really two thousand and great!

As I experience more years, I discover with greater clarity that everything is great, with the right perspective.

Yes even everything that did not go as I planned, but which seemed to go as God/Life/Energy planned.

For example today, our family sat down to watch a movie, and our Television would not turn on.

Although it was frustrating for the few minutes we focused on getting it to work, once we let go of that desire and focused on what we could do, everything turned out great.

I think the best idea I Consciously Choose to carry from 2008 into 2009 with me is from Esther and Jerry Hicks with Abraham. You can find out more about them here => Abraham-Hicks.com.

“You measure your life as successful, not by the number of accomplishments or awards or possessions.

You measure your life as successful, by the amount of joy you experience.”

Abraham-Hicks

Each day I find that my ability to Choose Joy, no matter What Is, increases.

The ability to Choose Joy, occurs by strengthening my Joy muscles.

I work at them.

2008 provided me with numerous opportunities to strengthen my Joy muscles.

2009 shall be the same.

Blessings,

Barry

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This very simple question can wreak havoc in one’s Belief System, when you answer it.

Q. What do you really believe?

A. Your life experience shows you what you really believe.

Your entire life is created from, attracted by, and experienced through your beliefs.

Thoughts + Feelings + words = Beliefs

Beliefs + Actions = Results

Look at the Results you have in your life and you will discover your beliefs plus your actions.

Your beliefs inform your actions.

When you believe you CAN NOT accomplish something and you still take action in the hope of getting desired results, rarely will you continue to take action and adjust your actions until you get your desired results.

When you believe you CAN accomplish something and you take action and adjust your actions until you get your results, you will always get your results.

Only you know what you really believe.

Only you can change what you believe to get your desired results.

You always get results that match your beliefs mixed with your actions.

What do you really believe?

Look at your results.

Look at the ways you describe life and others and your experience.

If you keep thinking, feeling, and speaking any way about life (guess what?), those are your beliefs about life.

You can change them when you become Aware that you have a choice.

You always have a choice.

Blessings,

Barry

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I just finished reading Give To Live by …

Dr. Rick Barrett and Dr. Joe Vitale

This wonderful FREE ebook is an incredible reminder about the blessings we have in life.

After reading this book, I felt gratitude for all the blessings I am able to share with the world.

To download your free copy today go to http://www.givetolivebook.com/

Blessings,

Barry

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If I am the center of my life experience (and I am), here is what I learned this December (the month holds many wonderful surprise opportunities still).

1. In a city generally unaffected by snow, snow can transform your retail shopping experience, while simultaneously shrinking the busiest shopping days of the year for many businesses in a usually snow-less city. God/Life/Energy has a specific plan behind this for the benefit of everyone involved.
   
2. This time of year begins or ends many wonderful spiritual and religious traditions. May these celebrations encourage myself and others to be the love and compassion we seek in the world.
3. I have created wonderful healthy boundaries in my life, which can sometimes become wonderful limiting beliefs when I am unaware, and wonderful blessings when I am aware.
   
4. I use this time of year to take stock of my accomplishments and to assess the forthcoming year’s projects. This year, like all the years leading up to it, was full of growth and joy and sometimes even joy and growth, lots of love too.
5. This year is definitely proof that all of life is orchestrated to give each of us our deepest heartfelt most secret dreams, I feel that many of my dreams/goals/intentions are the next logical step in my life now.
   
6. I love my family more than words can say.
7. I love my friends more than words can say.
8. I love my life and myself more than words can say.
9. I love my Right Livelihood and the Abundance that blesses my life.
10. I love and I am grateful for everything in my life, from the incredibly tiny red mites (?) that live on our house plants to the incredible world with all it’s diversity that we live in.

That is just a very small list that represents what I learned this December.

How about you?

No matter what you learned, may it bless you, as I believe all of life is poised to do when you recognize that potential in All That Is before you.

Blessings,

Barry

All writings here are copyright © 2008 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you are encouraged to link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

Not everyone celebrates Christmas.

Not everyone celebrates Christmas as the birth of Christ.

No matter what you choose to celebrate at this time of year … Hanukkah … Kwanzaa … Christmas … Solstice, there is an air to the sanctity at this time of year.

Personally, my interest follows along the lines of Unconditional Love, through being the best I can with all of life and all people I meet.

I believe that each tradition encourages a renewal of faith in one’s beliefs.

Many traditions celebrate a particular cycle of life.

Beginnings.
Growth.
Harvest.
Ending.

Take this time of year to focus on the place you find yourself in your cycle of life.

Do you feel blessed?
Do you feel Renewed?
Do you feel growth?
Do you feel transformed?

No matter where you find yourself, you can use it as a time to Bless, Renew, Grow, and Transform from where you are to where you ARE.

Where you are is exactly where you are supposed to be, because this moment holds the key to all of your dreams.

Your dreams are not in some far away future time and locale, your dreams are Now Here.

Either you meet your dreams Now Here, or you experience them No Where.

Let today be a reminder of what actually is Now Here for you.

Blessings,

Barry

All writings here are copyright © 2008 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you are encouraged to link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.