This week, I have been working on another book. This book is inspired by a question I have been asked more than once by people looking for clarification.
“How can I feel good moving towards my dreams when I only see contrary evidence?”
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To set up my answer, I wish to share the ideas that prompted this question:
In my work, I share Three Steps to Creating Your Own Experience.
- Clearly Define Your Desires
- Make Them Fun
- Follow Your Feelings
In my work, I also share the concept - Life is set up for everyone to win.
- Clearly Define Your Desires
- Life Gives You Only The Very Next Step
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Now, back to the original question:
“How can I feel good moving towards my dreams when I only see contrary evidence?”
My response to this question encourages you to define your desires specifically and talk about them generally.
The reason, you clearly define your desires is that you will attract/create what you have defined.
When you clearly define something (and totally forget about it) usually it comes to you without any additional effort.
When you clearly define something (and totally almost desperately want it) rarely does it come into your experience easily.
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Let’s examine a specific example to better understand the way you can use this concept in your life.
If you would like to have a 2009 silver Toyota Prius (as pictured above), because it is a great fuel efficient car. Let’s say you also want it to be a used 2009 Silver Toyota Prius with low mileage and fully loaded with all the bells and whistles. You want it to be easily paid for and easily maintained and joy to drive.
I would say that you have taken care of part one - define your desires specifically.
Part two - talk about them generally is now what you need to do.
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Most people have the define your desires specifically down to a science.
Most people clearly know what they want. If you do not clearly define what you want, you could get any vehicle to come into your life.
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Many people struggle with the talk about them generally part.
Many people will say things like.
- I can’t afford that car.
- I’ll never get a used one that has everything I want.
- And any other excuse that holds them AWAY from their desire.
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But this does not have to be you and your clearly defined desires when you talk about them generally.
So around your desired Clearly Defined Toyota Prius (this example) you can talk generally saying things that help you feel better as you think and talk about your desire.
- I saw another Toyota Prius today - I am getting closer every day.
- I so look forward to driving in style and safety with my new car.
- It’s not here today, but it is just around the corner.
- I love driving my new car in my imagination, because it is coming.
When you talk about your desires generally, you find yourself feeling better.
Some people will say that talking about things so you feel better to get something is a bunch of hog-wash. I bet those people feel worse and say that is the way things are supposed to be.
When you feel better, you are more open to try new things.
When you feel better, people are more open to you.
Ask yourself, who do you like to deal with?
Grumpy people?
Happy people?
When you Talk about your desires generally you feel better and more opportunities come your way because you believe Life Is Set Up For Everyone To Win.
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So today and everyday, define your desires specifically and talk about them generally (so you feel good) until you live with your desires as you have clearly defined them.
Blessings,
Barry
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