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This past few weeks I have been noticing the physical manifestations in my body where I hold anger, anxiety, fear, and tension.

Good Feelings are the most important desire I hold for my life, and most often to most people, I come across as someone who desires and embodies good feelings.

There have been two areas of my body wherein tension is regularly apparent.

Because this is so, I have chosen recently to Release Ineffective Beliefs that manifest in my body.

In choosing to do this, I did not wish to further empower these beliefs, rather I desired to create a space to release these beliefs finally (whether I knew that they were being released or not).

I present the affirmations I used to help Release Ineffective Beliefs, which manifested as increased relaxation in my body and life.

I Release Ineffective Beliefs

I let my mind provide me with the helpful information I need at any moment. I balance my ability to learn and reason with my ability to feel and express emotion. I give my heart and mind equal time by meshing my thoughts with good feelings. It is my privilege to balance my good feelings with good feeling thoughts.

I spend my time examining my dreams because they have come in response to my inner desires. My dreams hold Divine Guidance which is important in my self-exploration and understanding.

I allow my most significant concerns to float to the surface of my life, so that they can be released and resolved. When I kept these concerns hidden within me, they were a heavy burden holding me back in life. Now that they rise to the surface, they are lighter and easily dissolved in the light of good feeling right thinking actions. I stand back as these long held beliefs are uncovered and illuminated into a clear healing picture (or released without my knowledge of them). I easily understand the reasons these ineffective beliefs where chosen to protect me long ago. I easily release and dissolve these beliefs that no longer serve me. It is safe to bring peace and love to my entire heart, mind, and being.

Whenever I find myself trapped in a web of fear or anxiety that are not connected with anything particularly apparent, I know that my present tension is a result of past programming in action. I Consciously detach from unreleased fears by being aware of my tension. I step back and become the observer of my entire life, rather than activating one fearful strand of my life. I focus on my desires and move with good feelings past my imaginary fears.

I am resolving long held issues in my life. I feel better and this tells me that I am on track. I am moving past this issue and toward a successful, confident, and clear conclusion. Old doubts that previously cluttered my mind are being released, dissolved, and deactivated. As I Release Ineffective Beliefs, I become lighter through releasing resistance. I let my higher self guide me through this resistance into my good feeling resolution.

Abundance is mine. Everything I need to sustain my life has been provided. It is my responsibility to allow abundance into my life. I AM grateful for all that is provided to me. I release and bless my material possessions and release the hold on my belongings to release my fears of scarcity. Impoverished attitudes bring forth lack and limitation. Acceptance and appreciation of abundance allows more abundance easily. My sense of abundance includes financial prosperity and material possessions, yet most importantly, my abundance includes love, companionship, teachings, guidance, and nourishment.

I vocalize my feelings. I let vibrations of sound shake loose all my deeply held tension and anxiety that I hold in my body. I understand and release anger, anxiety, fear, and tension naturally to empower my life and healing journey and ultimately my connection with God/Life/Energy.

I Release Ineffective Beliefs

Blessings,

Barry

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This week, I enjoyed hearing from another dear person who connected with my writing. As I wrote a letter in response, I found myself describing the process of my writing in a way that was very clear to me. I share it with you here.

I write all my books to help me feel empowered in all the areas they cover … Abundance, Relationships, Happiness, etc. Most importantly all of my books are written to empower my relationship with God/Life/Energy, which is the basis for my entire life. I write with an intention to create simple timeless concepts that empower me to Connect with God/Life/Energy, rather than trying to change the outer world conditions. Even though I sometimes struggle with the outer world, I have become keenly Aware of the power of focus on God within my inner world. I use my books/concepts daily as tools to empower my experience.

In fact, I wrote my first book in 1999 (for myself) and have been using the concepts and the affirmations to improve my life since that time. My best friend encouraged me to share my writings feeling they could benefit others. I am glad I have, for the very reasons that your letter shares.

I also want to share with you that even with these concepts, I still make mistakes on the journey. However, when I believe that my good feelings mean that I AM Connected with All That Is, my life has improved immensely and I get back on track far quicker each time I experience challenges.

Life does not say we shall eliminate challenges from our experience (for challenges are a part of the human condition - for good in my opinion), but Life does say that we can improve the way we get through challenges by our perspective.

Please remember that feeling disconnected in life always encourages us to believe and have faith that we can win and enjoy.

Life is set up for everyone to win.
When you are feeling good,
you are letting your dreams in.

I encourage you to begin writing your own collection of affirmations and concepts in your own little book that you carry with you and refer to when you wish to feel more empowered. You are writing your life on an ongoing moment-to-moment basis, and the more Intentional focus you place in your Thoughts, Feelings, Words, and Actions, the more empowered you become as you are Creating Your Own Experience.

Thanks again for your very kind words. May your life grow in glorious ways as you embody simple concepts that improve your life, no matter what conditions Life presents you with.

Blessings,

Barry

All writings here are copyright © 2009 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

This week, I had a wonderful question from a friend, “How can I attract more money into my life?”

Hello Barry, I´d like to know how can I attract money into my life because I´ve been doing these mind affirmation exercises and nothing seems to happen for real…You see, I had this insight that I should build my own house and I am doing it! I think it´s great but at the same time I´m starting to feel worried because I´m afraid I won´t have enough money to finish it…I know that I am asking too much, I just want to say that I love your site and the messages that I read over here. are  great , thanks  anyway…Sorry to bother….Best wishes:)

Here is my response . . .

Thank you for your thoughtful question and open sharing of your current experience.

First off let me just clarify, You are not bothering me with your question. I am glad to serve as a mirror of what we all know within ourselves when we Feel Connected with God/Life/Energy. By asking your question, we both get to activate the energy of knowing together. Thanks for this opportunity. I only asked you to clearly focus your attention to one question, so that this response can truly benefit you on your journey.

I believe that many people (including myself) experience a similar relationship with money (or people, places, and things) from time to time, sometimes feeling sure and connected, sometimes not.

We Feel Connected more often when we are Conscious of our Creative Abilities.

Please remember, money is only one form of Abundance. Money is not the only form of Abundance. Life can accomplish anything you can believe you are One with — and God/Life/Energy does not require money to do a single thing. I would recommend focusing on the good feeling completion of your home, rather than getting money to finish your home.

Abundance is All That Is. Even lack is formed from Abundance.

I recommend that you check out the free information I share at the following web pages to further these ideas of connection:

Wealth
Wealth Assets
Wealth Miracles
Wealth Effective
Wealth Inspired
Wealth Dreams

Now I wish to answer your question specifically - because you have asked for an improved ability to Attract Money into your life.

Whatever story you tell about your life, the Divine manifests for you.

Tell the best feeling story you can and watch the miracles (in the form of money) come into your life.

Check out the following two blog posts about these concepts here:

Thank You God for all Blessings

Tell a better Feeling Story

Hello Barry, I´d like to know how can I attract money into my life because I´ve been doing these mind affirmation exercises and nothing seems to happen for real.

In my writings, I talk about the Feeling of God. Your Feelings set your Creation Vibration to Attract whatever you desire. When you align with the best feelings you can, you align with the Feeling of God in the same moment.

The better you Feel, the better your life becomes.

The better you Feel, the better you Attract things in your life that match your Creation Vibration.

You see, I had this insight that I should build my own house and I am doing it!

When you share that you had this insight - I bet this insight felt great! As you move towards the building of your house (or any desire you have), and you think everything (including the money) is coming to you, you feel good.

The reason you feel good, is not because this reality you are thinking about is particularly true in this moment (true only means that you are making something your experience of reality by your focus upon it).

The reason you feel good is because your thought of this reality coming to you is in alignment with Source’s vision of your reality manifesting.

If we look back at your first sentence, we can see that you’ve been doing these mind affirmation exercises and nothing seems to happen for real . Or said another way, you do these affirmations and they feel good at the time (do they always feel good? Sometimes feel good? Do you doubt they work as you do them?).

The Feelings are more important than the forms in the Creation process.

In this example:
The Feelings = Feel Good
The forms = mind affirmation exercises

No matter what form your life experience takes, if you Feel Good as you experience that form, I can promise you that you are in alignment with God/Life/Energy for the Creation of everything you desire.

What is your Vibrational Make-up?

I think it´s great but at the same time I´m starting to feel worried because I´m afraid I won´t have enough money to finish it.

Feel Worried???

Tell a better Feeling Story

I know that I am asking too much,

For whom? From whom?

Life is set up for everyone to win.

Life is set up for you to win and when you are Feeling Good you are letting your Good in.

I just want to say that I love your site and the messages that I read over here. are  great , thanks  anyway…Sorry to bother….Best wishes:)

Thanks for appreciating the writing and blessings placed in the web site.

I enjoyed answering your clearly defined question. If you sit down and write out your own clearly defined questions, and reach for the best feeling thoughts and answers you can find, you will be in alignment with your individually and clearly defined desires.

I wish to give you some additional vibrational advice.

You cannot find your answer when you feel (Vibrationally) far away from it.

You can always find your answer, when you feel (Vibrationally) you are close to it.

One exercise I do to help me align with everything in my life (including more money) is to hand write daily in a journal. I hand write because this process allows me to slow down and focus my thoughts. I hand write and bring the Feeling of God into the only moment of Creation I have access to RIGHT NOW. Remember, the Feelings are more important than the forms of your Creation. Here are some ideas of what I write to give you a clear idea of my process.

In my vibrational reality right now (which God/Life/Energy knows is just as real as physical reality when I Know and Believe and Feel it’s real), I am enjoying my good feeling financial freedom.

In my vibrational reality right now, I am loving my Radiant Health and Beauty.

In my vibrational reality right now, I am enjoying my good feeling relationships.

In my vibrational reality right now, I am loving laughing with my beautiful partner.

In my vibrational reality right now, I am so excited to deposit an unexpected cheque for $5,000 in my bank.

Remember, this is not just an exercise in writing, this is an exercise in Feeling ONE with your desires RIGHT NOW.

Life is set up for everyone to win.

Vibrationally all of life is Connected. Vibrationally you are Connected to everything you could ever want and need. You are Connected to everything you could ever desire when you believe you are. The more you experience something Feel Good Vibrationally, the sooner you experience the Manifestation of your Feel Good Experiences (like money).

I also highly recommend The Power of Awareness by Neville. I recommend reading chapters 23 and 24 to remember your power!

You can download a copy here for free in pdf.

Power of Awareness by Neville Goddard

Then create your personal Vision and believe it (as shown in those two chapters) until your reality meets your Vision.

Make it fun.

The more fun you have in your life … the more fun you have in your life.

One of the things I do to have more fun … is to record my Vision when I am feeling very energized about it … then replay it over and over again.

Through the visioning process, there is nothing you need to do to make your Visions happen except to feel good.

You do the Visioning process to feel good … it is the feeling good with certainty that attracts your Visions.

The action process comes when you get Inspired nudges or when you see the item you desire.

Then you have to take some form of action to make whatever you want yours.

Accept it.

Buy it.

Ask for it.

Work for it.

You will know when you see what you desire.

Blessings,

Barry

All writings here are copyright © 2009 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

The title to my post is a reference to a Prince song. I have been a big supporter or Prince’s music over the years particularly when the music helps me align with Feeling Good, Feeling Better, and Feeling Wonderful.

I have been very quiet this past month, spending time aligning with everything important to me, starting with …

God.
My Partner.
My Kids.
My Family and Friends.
My Business Partners and Relationships.
My Community Involvement.

As this year comes to a conclusion, I have had highs and lows.

Now, more than ever before, I look forward to everything I AM becoming One with Vibrationally and Physically.

Blessings,

Barry

All writings here are copyright © 2009 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.