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I love the work of Abraham-Hicks. It has transformed my life.

Here is the latest nugget that I have got from my understanding and studying of their information.

1. Thoughts: Good thoughts are thoughts that envision and believe you are going to create the manifestations you desire
2. Feelings: When you think good thoughts that match your Manifestations, you always feel good
3. Manifestations: When you have good thoughts that feel good your manifestations always end up feeling good

This is less about what you want, or what anyone else is doing . . . and MORE about what you are feeling at all times.

Abraham-Hicks encourage people to tell the best feeling story they can with their thoughts because they grow into their Manifestations.

If you have been telling a bad feeling story for a while, it can only grow into bad feeling manifestations.

“You can not get to a good feeling result through a bad feeling journey.”

–Abraham-Hicks–

You just have to make a decisions that nothing is more important than YOU FEELING GOOD!

So now I encourage you to tell the best feeling story you can . . . and continue to tell it until it manifests in your life.

Here are some other blog post I have done around these areas . . .

Experience Teaches
How Are You Really Feeling
I Release Ineffective Beliefs
Feel Good and Everything You Desire Comes To You
I Cannot Find The Answers I Seek
What Is Your Vibrational Makeup?
Tell A Better Feeling Story

Life always gives us Manifestations that match our thoughts and feelings.

Life is truly set up for us to win. When we are feeling good we are letting our good in.

Use this scale of emotions from Abraham-Hicks to help you feel better.

Joy/Knowledge/Empowerment/Freedom/Love/Appreciation
Passion
Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness
Positive Expectation/Belief
Optimism
Hopefulness
Contentment
Boredom
Pessimism
Frustration/Impatience/Irritation
“Overwhelment”
Disappointment
Doubt
Worry
Blame
Discouragement
Anger
Revenge
Hatred/Rage
Jealousy
Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness
Fear/Grief/Depression/Despair/Powerlessness

When you know your true feeling place, your life can really take off, by directing your thoughts towards feeling better.

We can only move one step up the scale from where we are, and then another from where we are, until we get back on top and feeling good.

For example . . . if you are feeling powerless about this situation (and you will know because you will feel it clearly) get angry about it which moves you up the scale of emotions. I keep a journal and work with my feelings daily. I write numbers 1 - 14, 1 being what I truly desire to feel (but am not even close to feeling) and 14 being (what I am feeling truly feeling in the moment). Then I use the scale and write (AND FEEL) one sentence as I move up the scale to feeling better. I know I am feeling better when I feel a sense of relief.

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first . . . I write what I am truly feeling about a situation in position #14.

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14. I hate being sick because I feel useless when I am sick.
(I make sure this is my true feeling - it will resonant with me when it is the right feeling)

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Next, because I know what I am truly feeling about this situation and I know what I do not want, I also know what I do want to feel.

Which I write in #1 postion

1. I love and appreciate that my good feeling thoughts manifest into my good feeling well-being and health
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14. I hate being sick because I feel useless when I am sick.

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Then I go back down to #14 and look at the Emotional Guidiance Scale . . . and write one sentence (WITH FEELING) to activate feeling a little better each step of the way.

I work from the bottom up to the top - in my writing - AND MOST IMPORTANTLY IN MY FEELINGS!

1. I love and appreciate that my good feeling thoughts manifest into my good feeling well-being and health
2. I am so passionate that the better I feel the better I allow enriching freeing experiences in my life
3. I love feeling enthusiasm and a rush knowing that my dreams are invisible until they are 100% ready to manifest
4. I love feeling positive expectation and belief that I am allowing more in my life
5. I love feeling optimistic about my dreams and my life working together easily
6. I love feeling  hopeful because feeling better allows more good feeling things in my life
7. I think my biggest resistance to my good is feeling content in my life
8. I get pessimistic and bored and give up to be content with my life
9. I get frustrated, irritated, and impatient about my life as it is
10. I worry and doubt and feel discouraged and disappointed sometimes
11. I blame myself for everything in my life
12. Just because I felt overwhelmed with negative thoughts last week
13. I am angry so what if being sick is a natural manifestation of being negatively focused
14. I hate being sick because I feel useless when I am sick.

This entire exercise is not to change the condition, because we can rarely change the people, places, things, and conditions in our life.

This entire exercise is TO FEEL BETTER because that is the only thing we can change.

When I feel better, I change my VIBRATION which attracts everything I desire.

The way I am feeling sets my Creation Vibration.
Feel bad attract bad feeling experiences.
Feel good attract good feeling experiences.

Make feeling good the most important thing YOU DO FOR YOU.

Don’t worry about others.

Do everything you can, so you feel better.

Only use your thoughts so that you feel better
don’t worry about what others feel
Only use your feelings so that you feel better
don’t worry about what others feel
Only use your words so that you feel better
don’t worry about what others feel
Only use your actions so that you feel better
don’t worry about what others feel

Others may call this selfish
but if you don’t feel good you have no good feelings to give others.
Others may call this selfish
and they say this from their selfish perspective.
Others may call this selfish
and eventually they will move out of your life because they can no longer control you.
Others may call this selfish
but you know that it is loving and good.

Carry a scale of these emotions in your pocket and refer to it to help you focus the direction of your thoughts towards feeling better.

The better you feel the better your life becomes.

It does not matter that anyone else understand what you understand. If you are feeling better, your life is going to be better and better.

Talk about a long post. All of this started when some asked me about what my advice on their relationship ending.

I could have just said, the only relationship you ever need worry about is the one between you and God/Life/Energy. When you and God Truly Feel Good together - everyone else in your life matches that Good Feeling Vibe.

I love you,

Barry
All writings here are copyright © 2010 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

All of life is set up for us to win. When we are feeling good, we let our good in.

When we feel bad because we think we will not find our answer, we cannot find our answer, even when our answer is right before us.

When we feel good because we think we will find our answer, we always do find our answer, because we know we are going to find it.

Feeling good works in every aspect of life, and through every person, place, thing, and experience.

In every particle of the Universe, there is the potential for what you do not wish to see, as well as the potential for what you desire to see.

EVERY PARTICLE OF THE UNIVERSE CAN HELP US.

EVERY PERSON!

EVERY PLACE!

EVERY THING!

Even the person whom you would consider the farthest from a friend has the ability and connections to help you live your dreams.

When you can BELIEVE that you are going to accomplish your dreams, and you are open to whatever is the easiest path to your dreams, even the person whom you would consider the farthest from a friend has the ability and connections to help you live your dreams joyfully and easily and compatibly.

Blessings,

Barry

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I have been pretty quiet on the site this past month.

At the end of January, Kimiko Nicole von Boetticher, the woman I was dating and then married to from 1990 to 1999 passed away and returned to God/Life/Energy.

I went to the Celebration of her life on February 7th, here are some of my thoughts about my experience at that time . . .

The house was packed with so many people wishing to celebrate Kimiko’s life amongst family and friends.

At the Celebration of Kimiko’s Life, the messages that I continued to hear included . . .

1. Kimiko always made me feel better about myself and my world.
2. When I first met Kimiko, I felt welcome immediately.
3. Kimiko and I had such incredible times together.
4. Kimiko encouraged me, as a woman, to be confident and in touch with the Goddess within me.
5. Kimiko loved the moon and loved the world and loved humanity and mostly loved family.
6. Kimiko was intense and passionate about whatever she focused her attention onto.

And there were also many personal stories that were shared that I had been a part of at the time, but had forgotten in the past ten years after we went our separate ways.

Incredible moving memories!

I feel very honoured that I got to spend 10 wonderful intimate and personal years with the incredible woman we all knew as Kimiko.

I equate the deep relationship I enjoyed with Kimiko, as similar to any long term personal intimate relationship you have enjoyed with another. We all can understand the depth and breadth of connection that personal relationship entails. I feel extremely blessed.

I want to affirm something that many hoped at the event . . .

I know that Kimiko is in bliss. She understands the purpose of her entire journey on Earth with all of us, and the blessings her life gave to us all . . . as well as the blessings we each gave to her, because from her current perspective she understands the oneness of the life experience.

I know that Kimiko is there for all of us when we feel good and feel connected with the Source within us when we are feeling good, joyful, empowered, loving, free, appreciative, dancing, and laughing.

I know that when we feel good, we can feel and experience Kimiko’s presence in our life through good memories remembered, or choosing a sign to see Kimiko’s presence . . . and then soon after seeing that sign and knowing that she is always here with us.

I know that there is only life. There is physical life which we are living. There is non-physical life which Kimiko is fully present with once again. There is communication between these two levels of life experience through good feelings, good memories, and good experiences.

I wish you loving, good feeling connections with All That Kimiko Is, which amplifies your good feeling connection with God in your life.

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After the celebration, I took time to sift through my mementos of our time together. Being an artist and writer, I have a vast collection of works that I created during that time of my life.

After being reminded of the great love we shared, the most apparent thing to me as I remembered our time together was discovering . . . what we can unconsciously close our life to . . . and open again.

I discovered that in our intimate relationship, we made choices that were to help us live fuller lives from our perspective at the time.

From my current perspective, I realize that I closed my heart to other parts of my life with those same choices.

By example, you can say something as simple as . . . the hot weather makes people lazy . . . and with that simple thought you may totally accept the belief that . . . the hot weather makes people lazy . . .

As a result, now everyone in your life can show up as lazy during a spell of hot weather because that is what you have set as your belief.

Through our time together, Kimiko gave me many gifts, this by far is one of the greatest gifts I ever received from her.

What we can unconsciously close our life to . . . and open again.

Through going over my time with Kimiko, I realized that I had unconsciously closed my heart to some things, and consciously to others.

Today I choose to open my heart again to the simple experience of love that is ever present in every experience.

I thank Kimiko for this and all the blessings we shared during ten wonderful years together. She will always be remembered lovingly by those who called her friend or more, like I was very fortunate to.

Blessings,

Barry

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A good day feeds on itself.

So do …

• good thoughts
• good stories
• good laughter
• good enjoyment
• good movies
• good songs
• good love making
• good dreams
• good dancing
• good conversations
• good trips
• good sunshine
• good friends
• good walks
• good food
• good jokes
• good celebrations
• good life
• good possibilities
• good health
• good wealth
• good relationships
• good success

Use whatever excuse you can to feel good.

Blessings,

Barry

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Your current money beliefs are only in place because they are the thoughts with feelings you activate the most. The more you activate any thought, the easier it becomes to activate similar thoughts.

Try for one month telling the best feeling story you are able to about money and see how your money situation changes because you change your vibration about money.

The Universe does not care if you are living something or imagining something, you attention to anything sets your vibration.

When you are feeling good about any subject you place your attention onto, your vibration attracts it powerfully (ie: if you feel bad, the same thing happens negatively).

Your feelings are only an indicator of your thoughts activated with enough belief to create (attract) in your experience.

Bad feelings only indicate your total belief in thoughts aligned with what you do not want. Bad feelings do not mean that what you are thinking about is truly “bad” to all people, rather bad feelings mean that you are looking away from what you desire, which feels bad to you.

Good feelings only indicate your total belief in thoughts aligned with what you do want. Good feelings do not mean that what you are thinking about is truly “good” to all people, rather good feelings mean that you are looking towards what you desire, which feels good to you.

If you are feeling bad, then you will attract bad feeling experiences. I encourage you to stop doing that and your life will change.

Try some of these ideas around money on, and remember to only speak ideas that feel good when you say them, because your feeling vibration indicates your attraction vibration.

Say things like . . .

I love money.

I love that money allows me to buy things I love.

I love when I have extra money that feels good.

I love that I can earn money.

I love that money can be fun.

Remember you can tell good feeling stories that are from your past too . . .

I love that time I got an extra $1,000 out of the blue.

I love that time I got a raise and a bonus in the same year.

You can tell good feeling stories about money as you imagine you would like it to be . . .

I love knowing that feeling good about money helps more money come to me.

I love enjoying money that I earn, or that is given to me, or that I find, or that I win.

You can tell good feeling stories about money and other people’s success . . .

I love knowing that good money experiences happen to others and to me.

I love knowing that just as I earned a small amount of money for the first job I ever had, I earned way more for my latest job.

You can tell good feeling money stories about the way you wish to experience money . . .

I love that money comes to me easily and joyfully.

I love that money comes to me in compatible and fun ways.

Now remember to try this for one month.

Stay hopeful that your results are going to change.

If you are telling good feeling money stories about yourself or others, about the past or present or future, about what you imagine or what you have experienced, your vibration around money will improve and the Divine will match your new feelings with good feeling money experiences.

If you are really struggling about this you can say good feeling stories like . . .

I love knowing that others are having success changing their creation vibration by telling good feeling money stories.

I love knowing that the better I feel, the better my life experiences feel.

I love knowing that I can change my habit of vibration from a habitual bad feeling one around money to a habitual good feeling one around money.

I love knowing that my results can only manifest when I truly feel good about more money, fun money, compatible money.

I wish you Richest Blessings of Love, Success, Peace, Health, AND MONEY!

Barry

All writings here are copyright © 2010 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.