In the last week, I wrote two posts about White Light, you can click on the following links to read them below.

1. The White Light Of Health

2. White Light For Wealth

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White Light.

Positive Thinking.

Affirmations.

Focus on your Goal.

Think and Talk Only about what you want.

The Law of Attraction.

All of these concepts are the same. Whatever process you use is called by whatever name you choose for it.

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White Light for Love is no different.

There is only one Moment of Creation. This moment of Creation is Right Here Right Now. This moment of Creation is the Only Moment we have access to.

This One Moment of Creation is eternal.

This One Moment of Creation is the moment I thought about this post.

This One Moment of Creation is the moment I am writing this post for you.

This One Moment of Creation is the moment you are reading this.

This One Moment of Creation is the moment that anyone will ever read this - 5, 10, 20 years from now.

There is Only One Moment of Creation.

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In each moment of Creation, you can either focus on what you want, or focus on what you don’t want.

God/Life/Energy cares not what you focus upon.

God/Life/Energy Manifests more of whatever you focus upon.

If you Focus on a lack of Love in your life,

God/Life/Energy Manifests more lack of Love in your life.

If you Focus on an Abundance of Love in your life,

God/Life/Energy Manifests more Abundance of Love in your life.

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You can call this Focus by many names:

White Light.

Positive Thinking.

Affirmations.

Focus on your Goal.

Think and Talk Only about what you want.

The Law of Attraction.

The important thing is to become Aware of your Focus.

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Today, Consciously Choose your Focus in all of your Relationships.

You can observe and comment on all that is lacking in your Relationships.

Or

You can observe and comment on all that is Loving in your Relationships.

The choice is yours.

The choice has always been yours.

Become one with your Power to Choose what you want more of because it transforms your Relationships with White Light for Love.

Blessings,

Barry

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If you desire lasting joyful love, realize you attract what you embody.

Think about what you find attractive in other people.

Most people find confidence, laughter, compassion, and a listening ear attractive in other people.

If you desire Love, and it is not currently present, ask yourself, what are you attracted to in others, and then embody those characteristics until you find them mirrored back to you.

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Too often, people say they are ready for love, when really they are desperate for love.

When people are desperate for love, they come across as needy, talkative, overbearing, and nervous.

Perhaps you have heard the idea that right when you no longer want something that it comes to you.

This is exactly what being ready for love is. Know that love is coming and you automatically vibrate with a “love-is-coming-to-me” Creation Vibration.

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When you are your most loving, that is the time love comes to you.

Love is ever present.

You can be absent from the Presence of love by your attention to anything other than love.

Love waits for you to acknowledge it’s presence before love appears.

Experience is Neutral.

Perception is Everything.

You can perceive Love’s Presence in any Experience when you choose to. Some would say that this is looking at the world through rose colored glasses.

Love would say that this is looking at the world through Love’s Glasses.

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No matter what age you are, you can . . .

1. Look at Love Through Love’s Glasses

2. Set your Creation Vibration at “love-is-coming-to-me”

3. Appreciate Love in every form present, until the form that presents itself matches your present love

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Appreciate love in every person, place, thing, and experience.

Appreciate love in yourself.

Appreciate all that is present in your life now, not at some future better feeling destination.

Love and Appreciation are the same vibration. When you Love and Appreciate what you have, and you Love and Appreciate what you dream about, then you set your Creation Vibration at Love and Appreciation.

“Love-is-coming-to-me” transforms into Love and Appreciation that is Right Here Right Now.

That’s all that is ever Right Here Right Now, when that is what you perceive and activate.

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Thank you God/Life/Energy for Love’s Glasses, and thank you for love coming to me at any age.

Blessings,

Barry

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Your Creation Vibration sets the tone for your life.

When you ask a question like, “Where is the love of my life?”, you set your Creation Vibration at, “Where is the love of my life?”

When you stop asking questions and start Aligning with what you do want that is what you Create.

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What do you want for your relationship?

1. Clearly define what you desire

2. Make it a fun experience to foster

3. Listen as your feelings guide you to what you desire

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I know that this may seem simplistic, but if you are struggling to achieve the type of relationship you truly desire, ask yourself, “Have I clearly defined the relationship I desire?”

If you are in a relationship, how did you get there? Did you get into your current relationship by Choice and Design, or did you arrive by coincidence and default?

If you are not in a relationship at the moment, how did you get there? Did you get there by Choice and Design, or did you arrive by coincidence and default?

The more honestly you answer the question, the more quickly you can get on to Creating the loving relationship of your dreams.

Where you are now, is not where you will be forever. If you wish to get to some place different, go there by Choice and Design.

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Whether you are in a relationship (or not) right now, define what you desire.

Yes, I am asking you write out what you want in this life for a relationship. Yes, I want you to write the quality and quantity of love as you desire it. Yes, you may have done this type of exercise before, however if you are struggling right now to realize the relationship of your dreams, you could benefit by trying it again.

When you are done writing it out (Yes, you have to write it out. If you just do this in your head, you will miss the beauty life is offering you through this exercise), I want you to look at your list.

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With your list in front of you, whether you are in a relationship (or not), ask yourself, of the things on your list, which of them are under your control?

By example, here are some things that could be on your list (and whether they are under your control or not).

1. I want our relationship to exude fun wherever we go (I can control only if I have fun).

2. I want my partner to say loving things to me (it would be nice, but I can only make sure I say loving things to my partner).

3. I want to take time making love regularly with my partner (I can be passionate and encourage more love making from my side of the equation).

4. I want my partner to be physically active, and watch hardly any television (I can control only me).

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I think you get an idea now, that if you want to have more love, success, abundance, peace, health, joy, freedom, fun, sex, wealth, kindness, friendship, or anything else in a relationship, then you can only control your part of the relationship.

Bring that to the table in a relationship (or potential relationship). It is not what you are going to get from a relationship, it is what you can give to the relationship.

I am not talking about being taken advantage of either, but being able to recognize healthy boundaries of what you want and choose to give to a relationship.

Healthy Boundaries of what you want and can give in a relationship means only what you Want and Choose to Give.

A Relationship partner can ask for more, but you will only give what you want and Choose to give.

You can ask for some thing to be in your relationship, but if it is not already present in a relationship, unless you choose to bring it to the relationship, you can not guarantee it being there.

Bring things with love and fun and you will share in the experience of them with your relationship partner.

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The next time you find your self asking, “Where is the love of my life?”, ask yourself, “How much love can I bring into my life right here right now?”

You are the love of your life!

Whether you are in a relationship (or not); whether you want a relationship (or not); you are the love that you seek.

You experience love within you. Someone can be loving towards a person, and that person can choose to deny that love. Another person can be unloving towards a person, and that person can choose to see love in their life.

I do not recommend that you (or anyone) stay in a place that is unloving. I only recommend that you …

1. Define what you desire

2. Make it a fun experience

3. Listen to your feelings

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If you are feeling good you are on track. If you want to transform your relationship by filling it with more love, bring more love into your relationship.

You’ve got the power to bring love into the world - your world!

Use it!

Blessings,

Barry

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The Seven Relationship Rings

Do you have problems with your intimate relationship partner?

Do you have problems with family members?

Do you have problems with co-workers?

Do you have problems with community members?

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The Seven Relationship Rings can help you immensely.

The Seven Relationship Rings can help you transform your life.

When you view and approach life using The Seven Relationship Rings model, you will transform your life.

When some people hear about The Seven Relationship Rings , they comment that it sound selfish.

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The only way we can experience life is through the perspective of Self. Is it selfish to approach life from the perspective of Self? I think it is Self-Full. Only when we are Self-Full can we help ourselves and others.

When we fill our cup of Self, then our cup is full. What do we fill our cup with? We fill our own cup with Love, Success, Abundance, Peace, Health, Joy, Freedom, Fun, Kindness; we fill our cup with everything that we need to Love and Approve of ourselves just as we are.

Some see this as selfish. The people who see this as selfish, selfishly want you to pay attention to them (or their point of view) first.

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The sooner you work from your Core relationship with God/Life/Energy, then every decision you make will be informed by your focus on your Core Relationship with God/Life/Energy.

Self-Full to me means God-Self-Full because in my Core is my Relationship with God/Life/Energy.

My goal is to fully embody God’s Presence in my life. This is a goal I work towards to be Self-Full in all of my Relationships.

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To most effectively experience The Seven Relationship Rings and to have Joyful, Peaceful, and effective relationships, you make all decisions from the inside out.

By example, if a co-worker asks you to switch shifts and work for them, in the past you may have said to yourself, “They switched with me the last time I needed a shift change.” and you then make the switch. Since this decision does not come from your Core (it comes from your sense of duty), many times this decision can lead to a rotting core inside.

Using The Seven Relationship Rings, I make my decisions by working from the Core outwards.

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Now if a co-worker asks me to work, I ask myself in my Core if that choice works for me …

Core Relationship Ring with God/Life/Energy: Yes that works for me.

Intimate Relationship Ring: Yes that works for us.

Friend Relationship Ring: I promised the kids that I would go to their baseball game on that day. No that does not work for me.

Then I go to my co-worker and say “no”.

When I approach my decisions from the inside out, I do not feel rotten in my Core when I make decisions. If I always make decisions to help others before myself, it very often leads to feeling rotten in my Core.

For a more detailed explanation of The Seven Relationship Rings , check out this link => The Seven Relationship Rings

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We always make decisions from our Core, and when we make our decisions from a Self-Full position (God-Self-Full), then we make decisions that build our life Joyfully.

Blessings Barry

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