It Sounds Like It Was Time For Your Relationship To End
I love the work of Abraham-Hicks. It has transformed my life.
Here is the latest nugget that I have got from my understanding and studying of their information.
1. Thoughts: Good thoughts are thoughts that envision and believe you are going to create the manifestations you desire
2. Feelings: When you think good thoughts that match your Manifestations, you always feel good
3. Manifestations: When you have good thoughts that feel good your manifestations always end up feeling good
This is less about what you want, or what anyone else is doing . . . and MORE about what you are feeling at all times.
Abraham-Hicks encourage people to tell the best feeling story they can with their thoughts because they grow into their Manifestations.
If you have been telling a bad feeling story for a while, it can only grow into bad feeling manifestations.
“You can not get to a good feeling result through a bad feeling journey.”
–Abraham-Hicks–
You just have to make a decisions that nothing is more important than YOU FEELING GOOD!
So now I encourage you to tell the best feeling story you can . . . and continue to tell it until it manifests in your life.
Here are some other blog post I have done around these areas . . .
Experience Teaches
How Are You Really Feeling
I Release Ineffective Beliefs
Feel Good and Everything You Desire Comes To You
I Cannot Find The Answers I Seek
What Is Your Vibrational Makeup?
Tell A Better Feeling Story
Life always gives us Manifestations that match our thoughts and feelings.
Life is truly set up for us to win. When we are feeling good we are letting our good in.
Use this scale of emotions from Abraham-Hicks to help you feel better.
Joy/Knowledge/Empowerment/Freedom/Love/Appreciation
Passion
Enthusiasm/Eagerness/Happiness
Positive Expectation/Belief
Optimism
Hopefulness
Contentment
Boredom
Pessimism
Frustration/Impatience/Irritation
“Overwhelment”
Disappointment
Doubt
Worry
Blame
Discouragement
Anger
Revenge
Hatred/Rage
Jealousy
Insecurity/Guilt/Unworthiness
Fear/Grief/Depression/Despair/Powerlessness
When you know your true feeling place, your life can really take off, by directing your thoughts towards feeling better.
We can only move one step up the scale from where we are, and then another from where we are, until we get back on top and feeling good.
For example . . . if you are feeling powerless about this situation (and you will know because you will feel it clearly) get angry about it which moves you up the scale of emotions. I keep a journal and work with my feelings daily. I write numbers 1 - 14, 1 being what I truly desire to feel (but am not even close to feeling) and 14 being (what I am feeling truly feeling in the moment). Then I use the scale and write (AND FEEL) one sentence as I move up the scale to feeling better. I know I am feeling better when I feel a sense of relief.
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first . . . I write what I am truly feeling about a situation in position #14.
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14. I hate being sick because I feel useless when I am sick.
(I make sure this is my true feeling - it will resonant with me when it is the right feeling)
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Next, because I know what I am truly feeling about this situation and I know what I do not want, I also know what I do want to feel.
Which I write in #1 postion
1. I love and appreciate that my good feeling thoughts manifest into my good feeling well-being and health
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14. I hate being sick because I feel useless when I am sick.
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Then I go back down to #14 and look at the Emotional Guidiance Scale . . . and write one sentence (WITH FEELING) to activate feeling a little better each step of the way.
I work from the bottom up to the top - in my writing - AND MOST IMPORTANTLY IN MY FEELINGS!
1. I love and appreciate that my good feeling thoughts manifest into my good feeling well-being and health
2. I am so passionate that the better I feel the better I allow enriching freeing experiences in my life
3. I love feeling enthusiasm and a rush knowing that my dreams are invisible until they are 100% ready to manifest
4. I love feeling positive expectation and belief that I am allowing more in my life
5. I love feeling optimistic about my dreams and my life working together easily
6. I love feeling hopeful because feeling better allows more good feeling things in my life
7. I think my biggest resistance to my good is feeling content in my life
8. I get pessimistic and bored and give up to be content with my life
9. I get frustrated, irritated, and impatient about my life as it is
10. I worry and doubt and feel discouraged and disappointed sometimes
11. I blame myself for everything in my life
12. Just because I felt overwhelmed with negative thoughts last week
13. I am angry so what if being sick is a natural manifestation of being negatively focused
14. I hate being sick because I feel useless when I am sick.
This entire exercise is not to change the condition, because we can rarely change the people, places, things, and conditions in our life.
This entire exercise is TO FEEL BETTER because that is the only thing we can change.
When I feel better, I change my VIBRATION which attracts everything I desire.
The way I am feeling sets my Creation Vibration.
Feel bad attract bad feeling experiences.
Feel good attract good feeling experiences.
Make feeling good the most important thing YOU DO FOR YOU.
Don’t worry about others.
Do everything you can, so you feel better.
Only use your thoughts so that you feel better
don’t worry about what others feel
Only use your feelings so that you feel better
don’t worry about what others feel
Only use your words so that you feel better
don’t worry about what others feel
Only use your actions so that you feel better
don’t worry about what others feel
Others may call this selfish
but if you don’t feel good you have no good feelings to give others.
Others may call this selfish
and they say this from their selfish perspective.
Others may call this selfish
and eventually they will move out of your life because they can no longer control you.
Others may call this selfish
but you know that it is loving and good.
Carry a scale of these emotions in your pocket and refer to it to help you focus the direction of your thoughts towards feeling better.
The better you feel the better your life becomes.
It does not matter that anyone else understand what you understand. If you are feeling better, your life is going to be better and better.
Talk about a long post. All of this started when some asked me about what my advice on their relationship ending.
I could have just said, the only relationship you ever need worry about is the one between you and God/Life/Energy. When you and God Truly Feel Good together - everyone else in your life matches that Good Feeling Vibe.
I love you,
Barry
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Amazing!!! i was just scrolling through all my subscribed reader. As i always appreciated Wayne dyer and his approach towards personal development i read this blog. I couldn’t stop myself finishing it. This was a good read after a long time. Thank you so much. Keep on writing like this. They will move out of your life because they can no longer control you….this one was my personal favorite one.
May 19th, 2010 | #
Hello Sudan,
Thanks for the feedback.

Blessings,
Barry
May 19th, 2010 | #