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On Friday, November 18th, Jerry Hicks transitioned back into the Non-Physical.

I never personally met Jerry Hicks, but the work he began with his wife Esther Hicks and the non-physical entity they call ABRAHAM has profoundly impacted me for over ten years now.

I feel I got to meet Jerry through the vibrational aspect of the numerous audios and videos and books created by Esther & Jerry Hicks with ABRAHAM.

Please check out the wealth of information available on their website => www.abraham-hicks.com

I am grateful for their work and the quite way Jerry and Esther Hicks brought this work forth to share with the world.

Thanks Jerry for your impact in my life.

Blessings,

Barry

I LOVE MY LIFE!

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Recently, three different people in my community came to me with questions.  All of them felt total powerlessness in their lives. All three of them asked me a similar question . . . “What if my heart is Breaking?”

One felt powerless in their relationship.

One felt powerless in their health.

One felt powerless in their career.

They asked me how they could move forward towards their desired results.

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For the rest of this post, I will be answering to one person even though my answer applies to all equally.

After a few questions, I discovered that this person had been feeling powerless for over 3 years with their issue. Today, it has manifested in a physical form they did not desire, and from their perspective could not change.

Your Thoughts
+ Your Feelings
+ Your Words
+ Your Actions
————-
+ Your Results

This person believes that they create their experience.

Yet, this person also denies their part in creating this current result.

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Next, I asked this person to look at the concept of Results in general — and one good feeling Result in their life specifically.

They could easily identify with the way their Thoughts + Feelings + Words + Actions = Results for the good feeling Results.

They did not desire to identify with the way their Thoughts + Feelings + Words + Actions = Results for the bad feeling Results.

I asked them why their creative participation in their results were any different — just because they called one Result Good and another Result bad?

Finally, they willingly agreed there was no difference.

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I then took them through a simple explanation . . .

1. First, we Think.
2. Second, we Feel because of what we Think about.
3. Third, we Speak about what we’ve been Thinking and Feeling about.
4. Forth, we Act upon what we have been doing with our Thoughts, Feelings, and Words.
5. Fifth, we get Results.

If we are getting Results, then we have been Thinking, Feeling, Speaking, and Acting in ways that support the Results we now have.

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Now to the specific challenge in their life Results — a feeling of powerlessness!

The direction of our thoughts always have a feeling associated with them.

Think about something good — you will feel good.
Think about something bad — you will feel bad.
Think about something powerless — you will feel powerless.

Think and Feel powerless long enough and you will Speak and Act from a powerless perspective . . . voila . . . powerless Results will seem to appear from everywhere.

Once we have a powerless Result in our life . .. it is very easy to Think, Feel, Speak, and Act powerless, because our Result focuses the direction of our thought.

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No matter what our Results feel like to us . . . we can direct our four creative powers towards a different Result.

Your Thoughts
+ Your Feelings
+ Your Words
+ Your Actions
————-
+ Your Results

It takes focus.

It can be done.

If there is a different Result you desire in your life ask yourself . . . “What Thoughts, Feelings, Words, and Actions support the Results I desire?”

Then put them into motion until you have the Results you desire.

What if your heart is breaking?

You get to choose the direction of your thoughts — Don’t You?

Blessings,

Barry

I LOVE MY LIFE!

All writings here are copyright © 2011 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

This week I interacted with someone in my community whom felt their lot in life was stuck where it is.

“Do you know about the Law of Attraction?” I asked.

“I know all about the Law of Attraction.” he replied.

“The reason I ask is that when I asked how you have been, the first thing you said was this past year was the worst yet.”

He said, “The Law of Attraction does not exclude things being bad especially when Karma is involved.”

“As I understand the Law of Attraction,” I began, “Whatever you hold as your subject of attention sets your Vibration which attracts more of the same to you.”

“If someone is in a car accident, they have no control over that.”

“Not once the accident has happened.”

“There is no way you can know that a car accident is coming towards you.”

“I believe you can.”

“I don’t believe that.” he said firmly.

“Are you open to a new idea?” I gently asked.

He took an beat and then nodded for me to continue.

“The Law of Attraction gives you more of whatever you are focused upon. If you continue to tell the story you shared with me . . . the past year was the worst yet . . . every time you think that thought, you are a match to that experience, and you will feel bad.”

“You have obviously not had someone close to you die.”

“I have actually.”

“Who?”

“The woman who was my first wife.”

“Did you not have a great hole in your heart because of death that was impossible to fill?”

“I did not feel that great hole that you are talking about. Are you open to a new idea?” I gently asked again, and he nodded for me to continue. “When you remember the greatest most love filled times you had with your loved one . . . right now recall one of them.”

The man closed his eyes and a smile graced his face and his shoulders relaxed.

“That love you are feeling, right now, is not a result of that person being in your life, it is a result of the focus of your thought in this moment. Even when your loved one was present, the reason you felt that love in their presence was because you choose to direct your thoughts towards feeling that love. Your Feelings always indicate the direction of your thoughts.”

“I agree that thoughts are powerful.”

“When you look towards something you want and you think you are going to get there — even without knowing how — you will feel good.” I paused to let that thought sink in. “Also when you look away from the thing that you desire and you think — there is no possible way for you to get it — you will always feel bad.”

“But these are things you cannot control.”

“I agree with you. You can never control the things that are external to you.”

“You can only control how you respond to them.” He said.

“Exactly, all of your control is in the direction of your thought, and you can control your thought before you arrive there.”

“But bad things happen to good people too.”

“Good or bad is a perception. What one person sees as bad, because they are not able to see the opportunity in the experience, another person sees as good, because they are able to see the opportunity in the experience.”

“Positive thinking?” he asked.

“Positive expecting.” I said, “When you train your thought to be open to new ideas, to believe that everything in life is set up for you to win, or to expect things to have a positive possibility, then you have all that control you could ever possibly have.”

“That type of sustained thought is hard.”

“At first any new thought is hard to sustain, but it gets easier with time. It takes sustained determination to direct your thoughts in a way that you can find good feeling things wherever you are.”

“You have that kind of sustained thought pattern.”

“I’m not perfect, but I do have a more focused sustained positive expectation thought process than most.”

“I feel a great sense of relief now.” He put his hand out and I shook it firmly, “Thanks for your reminder.”

“Your welcome . . . however you were open to a new idea. And when you are open to a new positive expectation idea, your life flourishes in leaps and bounds.”

And your life can flourish too!

Blessings,

Barry

I LOVE MY LIFE

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This week, I received an email from a concerned parent about their child’s health. I share my response so that it may help you feel relief in a similar experience.

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Thanks for your heartfelt email. Your email is short and sweet so the information I offer is only from what you shared. Take everything I share to help you feel better about this situation.

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When you are trying to cure something — you are a match to the illness more than the cure — because you believe there is some “illness to cure”.

Your entire email is more a match to what you fear — illness.

You even go so far to say . . . “I am dying to see him cured . . .”

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You cannot be aware of illness and be a match to health.

You cannot focus on a cure and be a match to health.

You cannot focus outside of yourself to be a match to health.

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You can allow illness to help you identify the opposite — health.

You can allow well being to help you vibrationally match health.

You can allow external examples to help shore up your internal belief and focus in health.

You can allow yourself to See Health and Well Being.

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There is no external authority that has the ability to assert/create in our experience.

I cannot create in your life.

You cannot create in mine.

You cannot create in your child’s life.

Your child cannot create in yours.

However, we have the ability to influence each other, and we have the ability to co-create experiences together.

You can look at my example and it can influence you to a new belief.

I do not create your new belief.

I do not influence you to create a new belief.

You can choose to use my idea to influence you to create a new belief in your life.

With your son . . .

You did not create the illness.

Currently, you are aware of illness more than the well being with your son.

Your ability to influence your son precipitates from your ability to observe his well being.

I offer two possible focus pathways.

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1. Look at your child and find the healthy parts and focus upon them.

I love my child’s healthy _______!

I love my child’s healthy toes!

I love my child’s healthy ears!

etc.

When you find and focus upon the healthy parts of your child, you become a match to health. Even if there is only one healthy part, and you become a match to that health, then you will discover more and more healthy parts to focus upon.

You will know you are connected to this belief if you feel it is true as you say it. It will feel good when you are connected to this belief as true.

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2. If you are feeling so disconnected to the idea of finding health, then become a match to God’s Presence in this situation with the following affirmation.

God is here now.

God Loves me now.

God Blesses me now.

God Cares for me now.

God is Aware of me now.

God does this for my child now.

You will know you are connected to this belief if you feel it is true as you say it. It will feel good when you are connected to this belief as true.

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Your thoughts and your feelings activate your Creation Vibration.

Think illness and feel bad and you activate the attraction of more illness and feeling bad.

Think health and feel bad and you activate the attraction of more health and feeling bad.

Think health and feel good and you activate the attraction of more health and feeling good.

I hope my ideas have helped to influence a new focus for you.

I cannot create in your experience — only you have that power.

God does not create in your experience either — only you have that power.

You cannot create in your child’s experience — only your son has that power.

God does not create in your son’s experience either — only your son has that power.

You do have the ability to be one with God’s love in this experience.

You do have the ability to be one with well being in this experience.

You have this ability by what you focus upon with your thought.

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Let it be said, that along with your positive focus on the health and well being already present in this situation, I encourage any action that feels good and aligning to take . . . doctor, medicine, hospital, alternative health care . . . I do not know what is best in your situation . . . you do by the way you feel in the journey.

In the past you may have seen and felt less health and well being and perfection in this current experience you have with your son, and your ability to see and feel the best opportunities would have been less activated.

Starting today, the more you see and feel the health and well being and perfection in the current experience you have with your son, the more you will see and feel what are the best opportunities as you move forward.

I wish you blessings of health and well being in the feeling forms of relief and peace and knowing that all is well already.

Blessings,

Barry

I LOVE MY LIFE

All writings here are copyright © 2011 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.

I have been really enjoying the YouTube Videos that combine ABRAHAM Hicks words and music.

Check out the work of Abraham Hicks using the following link => www.Abraham-Hicks.com

Check out the Abraham Hicks to Music on YouTube using the following link => Abe & Music

Check out MORE Abraham Hicks to Music on YouTube using the following link => Abe & Music

Consciously Direct your thoughts to more fun and well being,

Blessings,

Barry

I LOVE MY LIFE

All writings here are copyright © 2011 Barry Thomas Bechta. You may not use them without written permission but you may link to the posts or give out a link to the posts or Share It via the comments page.